Sacrifice : Long way to go_Mind Finger Connection

I am back again with the mind finger connection thing. This time it's for sacrifice before you own.

Its weird but true. So many things in the world are like giving away. Not everything that you can own even if you want to. You have to move back. You have to give it to others. To the world. It demands. You have to surrender. Sacrifices have a long list of surrenders. They surrender not because they are timid or incapable. They surrender for some good cause. They surrender for making something or someone happy. They want to see some people happy and that's the reason why they surrender.

We can start with soldiers. In fact they sacrifice all they have only in the hope that their sacrifice won't go in vain. It'll make the country better and inspire a lot out there to follow their legacy. They are real hero. Most often Unsung. Their sacrifices bring peace to the nation. We can sleep well in the night and talk about shitty things all the day long because we know that someone's out there to protect us. They deserve much more than such metallic medals compensating for their invaluable sacrifice. They need to be celebrated more than our film or cricket hero.

Then come the parents. They raise their children by giving up all their pleasures and hobbies in life and dedicating all days and night only towards their children's future. They do everything. Every small and little thing is being taken care of. They never miss it. Especially those parents having only a girl or two as their child. When that girl gets married, she goes in her new world like a free bird leaving the nest forever and parents are watching her going away. This is not a simple kind of sacrifice.

Both of these sacrifices are often considered as a duty rather than sacrifice.

But I'm not here to discuss those sacrifices and others. We can also take into consideration the filmy sacrifices of Mr. Vanraj of Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam or Mr. Arjun of Namastey London or Mr. Manu of Tanu weds Manu. All have given sacrifice of their love once but in the end they got their love back as it was considered as true love. But all those things are little filmy. Aren't they?

What sacrifice I wanna talk about is the sacrifice without getting something. Chasing the match, hitting boundaries and sixes and taking the team to winning position and sacrificing the wicket for others and in the end losing the match for no good reason. Sacrifice is a heavy word. I just started realizing this after writing these much about it. And the game changes..........

I have to put an end to this sacrifice thing because after writing these much about it I've started understanding that it's a tough call. If you don't get something of your liking or your choice, it doesn't mean that you are sacrificing. It's a heavy word and deserves the best. Not such situations like I'm in. So I've to put a full stop to this blog and to uproot the wiring of my mind-finger connection before it takes out something weird.

. [A Full Stop]

I fear >>> Shouldn't I??_mind finger connection

It's amazing that you can speak right up to my heart. And in this beautiful world, it's everything. Everything one wants from one's counter part. This can be categorized as my mind-finger connection blog archive. After so many days I'm here. As decided, I'm not gonna correct it. Simply allowing my fingers to take control and directly transform the thoughts playing around my mind into words.

Conditions. Why? Isn't it enough that we love? Isn't it enough that we care? When you love someone or let's say try to go close to someone, would you like to check what colour of shirt he is wearing? What deo or perfume he is using? I mean, I don't care. I really don't find these thing important. If I love someone or for that matter like someone, I do because I find myself most comfortable to be with her. At least I can think so. These entire stuff I'm writing here because I don't understand why conditions. Why?

Like someone said, being fearless to handle for longer period of time. Now what's this? Being fearless? Having or not having fear of something is a personal characteristics which can only be judged in some special circumstances. How can a person judge such traits in an hour or two? And even if someone is able to draw some lines between some haves and have-nots. So what? Are you here to buy something? Buying something may include some haves and have-nots. There you can ask that I want this and I don't want that. When you try to know a person or when you meet a person for the very first time, is it a kind of meet in which you can be so choosy?

Having fear of something is not that bad. It's human. Pure human. And I don't understand that how fearless or fearful person respond to you in some circumstance-bound situation? Are these reasons good enough? Don't you think exploring a person more and more reveal you some really quality traits. I know this is 21st century. But so what? A good gentleman's heart is what is more than everything I guess.

Yes I fear. I fear of losing you. I fear of losing my family. I fear of dying one day. I fear of going bankrupt. I fear of not making mark of my excellence in the space of people. But all these fears make me what I am. These fears realize me that I am living. I am human and a normal one. Not a super hero. Don't want to be. Happy with the heart-mind-body-soul I am gifted with. But you know what? I don't fear of accepting challenges. I don't fear of losing money. I don't fear of being lost in the world, And I don't fear of being what I am. I am loving-charming-dear-adorable person. I am the one on whom anyone can trust. You ask me and I try all my possible potential to get you what you want. And that makes me a good gentleman by heart.

Fearing fear is not that makes you fearful. Not accepting that fact does it. Any way, I'm not a salable product having so and so traits and I'm the best one in market and all that. I like you and I want to keep it as simple as it is. When I like you, I want you. When I want you I want you as you are. Not as I want you to be. I don't want to be your mentor or boss. I have feelings for you and that's everything, That's what makes you special and perfect. And I don't want to change you. I don't want any condition. Coz there should be no condition if you really love someone from your heart. This is what I think. Not you. And that makes a difference between us. So you ask for these traits and those qualities and I'll ask for you and more of you. Everyday. Everynight.

May be for lifetime...........